Big Moment Mentor

Imagine being fully present for your Big Moments and looking back on them with joy.

Big Moments are all the moments that feel big to YOU. And when Big Moments happen, if you're anything like me, you fall into "Survivor Mode." You are left feeling like you missed out on the moment because you were just trying to survive... just trying to make everyone else happy. Your family misses you, and to be honest, you miss you, too.

Imagine being fully present for your Big Moments and looking back on them with joy...

You know these Big Moments are coming. And when they do, you always feel like a wet rag that's been rung–I've been there. Big moments can be overwhelming and you are left feeling like you missed out on them altogether. Your family misses you, and to be honest, you miss you, too.

Can You Check Any of These Boxes?

✔️ My kids are teenagers and/or adults leaving the house.

✔️ I feel alone now that my kids are growing up.

✔️ I tend to react in the moment without thinking.

✔️ All my kids have recently left or are leaving the house.

✔️ One of my kids is graduating this year.

✔️ I am hosting or I often host family holiday events.

✔️ One of my kids is engaged and planning a wedding.

✔️ I don't know how to parent my adult children.

✔️ I'm not sure who I am now that my kids are grown.

✔️ One of my kids is engaged and planning a wedding.

✔️ I often feel like I have to endure the overwhelm.

✔️ I'm don't really have purpose without my kids.

You can thrive in these Big Moments today, mom. Not just survive.

Read the Simple, 4-Step Guide for Free

Surviving to Thriving Today

Have you been "just surviving" lately? Wish you could stop the crazy mess going on inside your soul enough to enjoy the moment?

You CAN have victory! You can stop yourself from going into survivor mode and instead thrive in your day-to-day using this 4-step guide (with Bible verses to back up and guide you through every step!).

Did I mention you get a pretty poster as a bonus? 😉

Download This Guide for Free!

Join Our Membership

Meet other women like you in the Big Moment Membership, where we talk on a live call twice a month and have regular group chats to grow true friendships so we can walk together through whatever God has for you. You don't have to be alone!

Unlock Your Super Powers

Take control of the overwhelm by learning your healthy and unhealthy motivations with the Enneagram and our Needs and Values assessment through the online courses included with the membership. Dive deeper into who you are, learning how to navigate relationships and moments in healthy, joyful ways.

Enjoy Your Big Moments

Moments already matter, but it's how you live them that will either bring joy or heartache. It's time to take actionable steps that you'll learn inside the membership to take every moment to the next level of joy–even when it's hard.

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Imagine being fully present for your big moments and looking back on them with joy...

You know these big moments are coming. And when they do, you always feel like a wet rag that's been rung–I've been there. Big moments can be overwhelming and you are left feeling like you missed out on them altogether. Your family misses you, and to be honest, you miss you, too.

Does stressing over big life changes and events suck the joy out of you?

Every woman deserves to experience her Big Moments free of uncertainty and isolation. This is why I mentor faith-filled, Christian moms who are walking through life’s milestones.

As a Certified REALIFE Process® Facilitator and a Certified ©iEnneagram Practitioner, my hope is for you to be able to walk confidently and successfully through your Big Moments while learning more about yourself and how you can navigate these moments with the help of someone who has been there, too. I’ve been married for over 29 years, I have three grown daughters, and I’ve walked through a lot of these moments myself.

In fact, I've fallen into Survivor Mode more times than I can count. And every time, I could see my family feeling like I missed out completely on the happiness and excitement because I was so focused on getting things done. I realized that "getting things done" without understanding who I was, how I could find true rest, how my personality is made to handle stress... I was losing out– all at the cost of my health (emotional, mental, and spiritual!), at the cost of my family, at the cost of my own joy.

I had to find a way out of Survivor Mode. So I did. And that's why I want to help guide other moms have victory over their own Survivor Mode, too.

Every mom (that means YOU) deserves to be able to get out of her Survivor Mode and be fully present during her Big Moments!

I'm ready to have victory, too

We've Been There, Too

Janice - Mother of 12

“Big Moment Mentor was surprisingly effective at making my son's wedding day stress-free and deeply enjoyable. Even though the wedding cake never showed up and the bride's father almost missed the wedding! The tools and scenarios BMM helped me plan, allowed me to focus on family and friends at the wedding. I am very grateful to BMM for the excellent mentorship!”

Mary - Wife and Mother

"I had the wonderful opportunity to take an official assessment along with my husband and his immediate family. Sonja graciously walked the family through each type, but most importantly, how our actions affect each other based on our types... We always knew we had our differences, but the Enneagram and Sonja's instruction allowed us to see ourselves and each other in a whole new light, like a peek into our minds. "

Lisa - Mother of 3

"My brain went from condemnation to freedom as i was processing it. I finally feel that it's okay to be me - I know that sounds ridiculous but i feel like many others go through this too."

Ready to Create Those Joyful Big Moments?

Download my 4 step guide for free and take control of being present in the moment and enjoying it, too!

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